Jess’ Birthday 2025

September 22, 2025 10:41 pm

Jess’ birthday was on Saturday this year so she got the whole weekend to celebrate. Which she needed, because she felt super lousy starting in the afternoon and we postponed dinner and cake until Sunday.

Corinne created a treasure hunt for her which, naturally, led her to her presents. We got that done around lunch time before Jess crawled into bed for the rest of the day.

On Sunday we played a round of Garden Variety and a few rounds of Cat Fluxx (new games Jess got for her birthday).

We had dinner at the Cheesecake Factory and then home for the salted-caramel cheesecake I’ve been trying to perfect. I realized this year that the recipe for a caramel topping I’d been using is not actually a caramel recipe (white sugar)–it’s a butterscotch recipe (brown sugar and butter). So I switched to an actual caramel recipe. Still working out how to get the caramel stiff enough so it doesn’t run off the sides. Next year, I’m planning to mix in powdered sugar once it cools to stiffen it up, which I did experimentally for the (poorly-piped) decorations. Also need to figure out how to keep the water in the water bath from getting into the springform pan and making the blondie crust soggy. But it still tastes really good.

Anniversary 2025

June 25, 2025 5:23 pm

Jess and I went out to the coast for a night for our anniversary. We stayed in a little beach house in Jenner overlooking the mouth of the Russian River. We watched seals swimming around, but apparently didn’t take any pictures.

We drove inland to Duncans Mills and looked at the shops and ate dinner. Jess bought some tea and candles.

A cat found us and led us down a trail at sunset.

Mother’s Day 2025

May 12, 2025 4:51 pm

Jess’ parents came out to help when Jess came home from the hospital. Her mom stayed around for a few weeks and was here for Mother’s Day.

We made them breakfast of pancakes, bacon, and eggs. Spent the day hanging around and played Hardback. I cooked steak for dinner with crème brulée and angel food cake for dessert.

Jess always asks me to take a Mother’s Day picture and somehow I always struggle to get a decent one. Here’s this year.

Jess’ Birthday 2024

September 24, 2024 7:36 pm

When Jess returned home from dropping the girls off at school she found a mysterious, locked treasure chest on the table with a sealed envelope. Then she had to wait all day until I finished work to investigate. But in the meanwhile we went to lunch downtown at Maple Street Eatery.

At the appointed hour she opened the envelope and found a letter from a wandering soul asking for her help freeing a friend from a trap. She needed to find a lock and the key to unlock said lock. After telling the soul that she was ready to help the soul communicated to her the location of a map and riddle by flashing the lights in Morse code.

Finding the map she followed a series of riddles with each one leading to a “sigil” and the next riddle. With all the sigils she used information from the original letter to arrange the sigils on the map to point her at the location of the key. With the key was a “magic” flashlight which when shone on the map revealed the location of the lock.

Unlocking the lock released the trapped spirit friend who then flitted across the house leading her into the living room where it made the lamp change colors which matched the numbered and colored sigils to reveal the combination to the treasure chest.


I had a little fun with the home automation stuff this time. I designed and 3d-printed the key (with hidden magnet) and the lock (not a real lock, but it did have a magnetic contact sensor hidden inside) which I’m pretty pleased with.

She opened the chest and received her presents which included tickets to an American Authors concert next month (You can’t get fun tickets these days, so I made my own).

I took the girls shopping a few weeks ago. We went to the outlet mall and I asked them to think of things that Mom would like and gave them a budget to work in. Heather selected a box of fancy chocolates. Corinne selected a necklace and earrings from Claire’s (given that she was extremely excited about this selection and that she met the criteria I couldn’t in good conscience discourage her from the idea).

Then it was off to Melo’s for dinner (they have a potato-bacon pizza which Jess likes). And back home for caramel cheesecake.

Jess’ Birthday 2023

September 23, 2023 2:49 pm

Jess’ Birthday fell on a weekday this year which means waiting until school and work are done to celebrate.

But before she could do that she needed to find a few of her presents. She made short work of my riddles and we got to opening presents and then heading out to dinner at the Cheesecake Factory (which had incredibly slow service that evening). After dinner we came back home for the triple-layer caramel cheesecake I made (blondie crust, caramel cheesecake, with salted-caramel topping). I think I’ve just about got it perfected.

Aside from the wildfire smoke that has settled in during this week it seemed to be a pretty good day.