Kyle Dickerson – Page 67 – If we had a Marriage, These Would be its Thoughts

Catch Up: Heather’s 5th Birthday

December 27, 2016 9:06 am

This was Heather’s first year celebrating a birthday around a school schedule. So when I got home from work we opened presents.

(We finally got around to using the cookie cutters to make Christmas sugar cookies.)

The USB microscope camera is a hit. Fabrics are pretty interesting to look at. I found some kind of animal bone in the parking lot at work that we still need to look at which should be interesting.

I put together another treasure hunt this year (Heather was very vocal about hoping there would be one). It wasn’t up to the same level of quality as last year’s, however, due to the lack of time between returning from our trip and her Birthday. I’ll have to try to make up for it next year.

The treasure hunt led her to the garage where she found a shiny blue bike! (After months of lamenting that she didn’t have a pedal bike. And she’s outgrown her balance bike.)

We did presents first so she would have some time to ride her new bike before it got dark (and apparently this is the only picture we have of her on the bike that day….).

Having been gone for a month she was quite out of practice balancing. We still need to find some time to get outside so she can practice, but it’s actually been cold (by Livermore standards, highs in the 50s) and/or raining quite a bit lately.

After riding around for a bit, we went to dinner and then came home for cake.

Line in the Sand

December 14, 2016 1:36 pm

In February 2016 Donald Trump emphatically told the world, “I’d bring back waterboarding and I’d bring back a hell of a lot worse than waterboarding.”

I’ve previously stated how unacceptable the use of torture is by our country.

So here’s my line in the sand:

I am a software developer supporting the mission of counter-proliferation of weapons of mass destruction. I am a member of the Intelligence Community. If Trump reinstates the use of torture by American personnel I will resign from my job in the Intelligence Community in protest.

If we come to such a point, I may keep working at the Lab, but I will not work on intelligence projects and have my efforts in any way used in support of such despicable behavior.

Waterboarding is torture. Anything “a hell of a lot worse than waterboarding” is torture. I will not spend my time and energy on projects that imply that such treatment of prisoners is acceptable.

We should be better than that.

I am better than that.

What do you stand for? What is your line in the sand?

Worry, Concern, and Hope

December 9, 2016 10:51 am

I worry.

I worry the country will be a worse place when my girls grow up.

I worry our nation will blind itself to its faults.

I worry that anger and violence will increase.

I recognize that surrounding every atrocity has been a society of good people quietly saying, “That will never happen here. We’re better than that. Let’s just keep our heads down and get through this.”

How does one find a balance between wariness, activism, fear, and over-reaction?

I don’t know.

Are people in the U.S. currently over-reacting to President-elect Trump’s language, decisions, and actions? I hope so. For it to be an over-reaction means things aren’t really as bad as they might seem.

Four years ago I wrote about the dangers of nationalism. That post is more relevant now that it was then. Please go read it.

I am greatly concerned that President-elect Trump regularly, publicly attacks, demeans, and insults any opposition to his actions or opinions. No one likes being the subject of public ridicule and I am concerned people will keep their mouths shut to avoid this treatment rather than oppose him.

I am concerned that dissent will be suppressed.

I am concerned that President-elect Trump seems to be gathering a body of “loyalists” to surround him in Washington rather than competent and qualified individuals (even if I disagree with their views).

I am concerned that many people no longer feel safe going about their day.

I am concerned that an elected State Representative was harassed and berated for her religion and ethnicity during a cab ride in the nation’s capital.

I am concerned that the next few years may be marked by conflict escalation between Trump supporters and opponents.

I am concerned that the next 20 years in the United States may subject us to some type of nationalistic violence within our borders.

I hope these concerns are unfounded.

I hope for peaceful dissent and respectful disagreement.

I hope for a nation that can recognize it has faults even if we disagree on how to fix them.

I hope the country is a better place for my girls when they grow up.

I hope.

2016 Family Adventure – Part 8: Returning Home

December 5, 2016 8:25 pm

On Friday, October 21st, Heather helped Grandma make sugar cookies and we went over to Dinosaur State Park and sifted out some fossils and rocks in the sluice.

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On the 22nd we had a farewell lunch at Dairy Queen:

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On our trip back, during our layover in Chicago, the weather was clear and we went up in to the Willis Tower. Up to the 103rd floor to go stand out in a box of glass:

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Then a couple more days on the train:

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Heather woke up early 25th in desperate need of something to read. So she read the passenger safety card:

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As we prepared to arrive back in Martinez we ventured out to the observation car, which was oddly deserted at this time. I guess not many people take the train into Emeryville since the observation car is usually packed.

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And with that, our trip was over. We loaded back up in the van and drove home. 2016-connecticut-travel-map

2016 Family Adventure – Part 7: Castle Craig

November 30, 2016 8:51 pm

Okay, let’s clear this up immediately, “Castle” Craig is a lie. It should be “Tower Craig” or something, but I didn’t name it. It’s a little tower built up on the side of a mountain in Meriden, CT. But it has a great view and we got nice colors from the leaves. I don’t have much else to say about it, but it makes me miss New England. I mean, just look a these pictures! Trees! Everywhere! They just grow all on their own without being carefully tended and watered!

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